questions for dad page 11

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These are some questions to consider if you are meeting your bio-dad for the first time.  Although some of these questions may make him feel uncomfortable, you have the right to ask him anything you want.

What made you decide to finally meet me?

Did you ever ask mom about me?

Why haven't we met before?

Did you love mom?

What was your life like when mom got pregnant? What was your occupation?

Why couldn't you stay with us?

Were you mad at mom for getting pregnant? Not having an abortion?

What was your reaction when you found out mom was pregnant?

Did you ever wonder what I was up to or how I was doing?

What type of relationship did you have with your parents?

Do any relatives know about me? Do they want to meet me?

Are you mad at me?

Were your parents around when you were growing up?

Do you have any other kids?

Do they know about me? Do they want to meet me?

Were you ever in the military?

Were you ever in jail?

Do you have any issues with drug or alcohol addiction?

Is there anything about your past you would like to change?

What is your side of the story?

Do you know my birthday?

Did you contribute financially when I was growing up?

What diseases or conditions run in our family?

Do you think you are a good father? 

Do you love me?

Do you hate me?

Do you wish I was never born?

What type of relationship do you want us to have?